Stiff fingers

Despite going to bed late I slept well, over eight hours, with the bedroom window open. It gave me a fairly clear headed start to the day, but by mid morning medication side effects closed in on me like bad weather, slowing me down, affecting my spatial awareness, making me feel nervous when on my feet.

In the day's news, Iranian backed Houthi forces have made significant advances, taking control of the Yemeni coastline and the Bab al Mandeb gateway to the Red Sea. The pipeline which made it possible to export Saudi oil using this route is out of action after a missile strike. With traffic through the Straight of Hormuz restricted and vulnerable to attack, the price of oil has risen further with widespread economic impacts especially on fuel prices.

Trump claims optimistically that Iran is open to a peace deal. It's impossible to believe anything he says. He's trying to cheer up voters ahead of the US mid-term elections at a time when his popularity is at an all time low. The US Congress has voted for the third time to halt progress in the war without its approval, with some Republicans voting with Democrats. The war has cost America $38 billion so far and depleted its military arsenal. Unfortunately Trump can veto any war time decision Congress makes, but the longer the conflict continues and inflation rises, the less likely Trump will be re-elected when the time comes.

I made an effort to play my Tatay guitar today. Remembering chords and melodies wasn't a concern but my left hand and fingers are so stiff that it's much harder to stretch them and press down on the finger board to make clean chord shapes and change them in the correct sequence when playing a piece of music I recall. Serves me right for failing to play for so long, not to mention cutting my fingernails. The Tatay is over sixty years old and has a beautiful mature resonant sound. It holds memories of music-making stretching back over my entire adult life. What a treasure!

We had cold pre-cooked sausages and veg for lunch, then went into town together to find a replacement for the broken metal foil in my electric razor. I remember seeing them on sale a few years ago. Neither Boots nor John Lewis had them in stock. Now it seems they are only available on-line. We had a cup of tea in John Lewis' top floor restaurant, and then returned home.

After supper we watched another episode of 'Kabul'. Then I watched the finale of 'Vigil' - a happy ending of sorts, but I'm not quite sure how it was reached as yet another layer of criminal conspiracy was exposed on top of the spy stories embedded in previous episodes - never mind, bed time already.

Catch up with former colleagues

I slept well again last night, but it took a long time to wake up properly. I didn't feel breathless, but rather as if I'd been sleeping in a room with no fresh air circulating. Well, I suppose that may be true. I don't keep a window open all night as the weather can change. When the temperature drops, I wake up feeling the cold, then it takes me ages to return to sleep.

I went to the Eucharist at St Catherine's after breakfast. Fr Sion is in Sweden on a diocesan twinning visit this week, so Canon Jenny Wigley took the service. We were colleagues in the city centre team ministry in the years for a while before my retirement. She moved on to Radyr Parish and I helped her out by taking services there occasionally. It must be ten years or more since our paths last crossed. She's a white haired granny now, but possesses the same exuberant spirit as she did twenty five years ago.

On the way back home I met Paula who lives in a nearby street. She contributes regularly to the Parish Daily Prayer WhatsApp thread, and I worked with her at the start of publishing Ministry Area information on Microsoft Sway. I haven't seen her since then, eighteen months ago. We chatted about our ailments and coming to terms with the vulnerabilities of old age. It's what people in our age bracket do, after all.

I had an acupuncture appointment booked for one o'clock, which thanks to Clare involved a hastily cooked lunch and a brisk walk to get to Parkwood clinic on time. When I arrived there I had no response from ringing the reception door bell. I phoned and got Peter's answering machine, so left him a text message. He called back an hour later apologising for having given me in haste an incorrect appointment time when changing the appointment time a few days earlier. We've re-booked for next week, the day after my GP appointment about a medication review, which could be useful, as I've discussed medication with him previously. 

After supper, I watched a couple of episodes of 'Vigil', combining a murder and a spy thriller with two female British detectives caught up with British, Chinese, Russian secret services and the CIA competing for control over the discovery of strategic energy assets in the Arctic Circle. It's such a complex story of lies, deceit and political intrigue it's hard to follow. The protagonists sometimes look puzzled too as they try to figure out what's happening, who's doing what to whom. Set on the island of Svalbard in the Barents Sea, the landscape is gaunt and treeless, covered with ice and snow even in summer. Aerial photography using a fashionable drone camera is impressive, showing viewers a place that few are ever likely to visit. It was engaging enough to watch that I stayed up later than I intended.

Autumnal

Another good night's sleep. That's three days in a row that I've slept for more than eight hours. It certainly makes a difference when it comes to coping with the ill effects of medication. Clare went off by taxi to her study group in Penarth, leaving me to re-hang the portrait of young Auntie Betty above the dining room table after Clare had a change of mind, tried it elsewhere, then decided it was OK where it was in the first place. It's not so easy a job, reinstating the necessary picture hooks.

I went out to buy wound dressing from Boots, and chicken legs to roast from Tesco's and cooked lunch when she returned -  veg and sausages, vegetarian for Clare, pork for me. I slept for twenty minutes in my arm chair, then went for a walk in Llandaff Fields after a cup of tea. The pale green Maple tree near the Western Avenue exit has turned yellow now. Chestnuts litter the grass. Most of the other trees remain olive green with a scattering of leaves sun scorched brown. One patch of grass near a tree stump has scores of round white mushrooms that resemble those appearing in packages on supermarket shelves. Autumn is nearly here.

After supper we watched another episode of Kabul and then one of Vigil, both on iPlayer. I found the dialogue isn't clear when watching on telly, so I switched to watching on Chromebook and using headphones which was quite an improvement.  Then late to bed.

Nature dictates the agenda

I woke up after a good night's sleep to sunshine and wind driven clouds on the move. It's Amanda's sixty second birthday today, so I sang her a greeting on WhatsApp. I also posted a thank you on the Daily Prayer thread in appreciation of the prayers and support I've received from church members in the year since the stroke. 

I've recovered quite well in many respects, but the preventative medication I have to take robs me of quality of life, and leaves me feeling vulnerable. The medics are slow responding to my concern about this. I didn't do much this morning apart from catching up on the news. I cooked couscous to go with ratatouille and fillets of trout for lunch. 

Afterwards we went grocery shopping together at the Co-op, towing a shopping trolley destabilised by uneven pavements, threatening to overturn, despite the pavements being resurfaced last year. Small patches of grass and weeds have forced their way through to the surface, bright green in colour in contrast to the black surface of the tarmac. It reminds me of the thistle that forced its way up through a crack in the barren concrete back yard of St Agnes Vicarage thirty years ago, a sign of the renewing power of nature, despite what we do to degrade and destroy God's creation.

It was tea time before I remembered to go and and collect my prescription meds from the Pharmacy, well before closing time on this occasion. It's not that I completely forget things I need to do, but the drugs slow down and can interrupt the recall process. I'm better at remembering things as the effect wears off in the afternoon. 

After supper I watched the first episode of a new series of 'Vigil' in BBC iPlayer - an international crime thriller about British police investigation into a murder and a disappearance at a scientific research centre of the Arctic circle. Norwegian, Russian and Chinese strategic interests contend with each other at a time when climate change has made maritime passage through polar regions possible all year round and sea bed prospecting for rare earth metals becomes economically feasible. An interesting take on a rapidly changing environment at the top of the world.

Stroke anniversary reflection

Overcast and drizzly today. I had a good night's sleep and stayed clear headed, even after taking the meds. The newly consecrated Bishop of Bangor, Manon Ceidwen James led 'Sunday Worship' on the radio, reflecting on vocation and pilgrimage.

Clare stayed with Kath while I went to the Parish Eucharist. It's twelve months tomorrow since the stroke ambushed me at the service on Holy Cross Day. Fellow worshippers came to my aid when I stumbled at Communion and became disoriented, more aware of what was happening than I was. The first symptom wasn’t a trapped nerve in my neck as I thought. I had trouble recognising where I was outside my own house. The morning after, I was grateful to Fr Rhys for driving me to UHW A&E and checking me in. There and then began a precarious journey of recovery including an adverse reaction to medication precipitating a heavy nose bleed at home a few days later. I was grateful to Nigel who drove me to A&E for a second stay involving surgery to repair a damaged vein in my nostril. Sixteen days after my first admission I was released to continue recovery at home.

I was much blessed by sacramental visits from parish clergy through this critical period. It brought home to me the mysterious reality of being sustained by the prayers of the church. The consultant who examined me when I was first admitted declared eight months later I was in good health making a good recovery . I’m grateful I didn’t lose strength and balance making it possible to continue walking ten thousand steps a day. Visual impairment stopped me from driving. It’s a relief to be spared the stressful necessity of driving and maintaining a car. We rely on public transport and occasional taxis instead.

The world I inhabit is smaller now, learning to live with limitations unforeseen. Life as a pedestrian in the slow lane allows me time to look and listen, to appreciate and give thanks for the beauty of creation in the passing seasons. For how many years did I rush through life, trying to pack in as much as possible, no matter what the impact might be, as my body aged without me realising? I gave up contributing weekly to Daily Prayer on WhatsApp, when it became too stressful to maintain a regular schedule. I'm not doing anything creative currently to replace this. I have good days and bad days. Fatigue is never far away, mental and physical, and the medication seems to make things worse not better. Being fit and active is a gift and a blessing for much of the time. Restorative rest and sleep are a gift and a blessing too.

There’s no point regretting what I can no longer do, or had to let go of in the interests of a less demanding life. I’ve been given time to think about and understand occasions of failure and error in my life and entrust myself to God’s mercy and pardon. How precious is the Jesus prayer in this regard. I miss leading worship, reading scripture, preaching in church. I may think I still can, but reliability of commitment when there’s no certainty of whether it’s going to be a good day or a bad day, must come first. I accept that after fifty seven years in public ministry, all I have left to offer is thanksgiving. I hope to learn instead from listening to others, and experience the Gospel from a perspective different from the habits of a lifetime. 

Having had such a rich and fulfilling life, illuminated by divine grace and mercy all the way, I have so much to thank God for in all I remember and experience now. One of the earliest sermons I ever preached reflected on St Paul’s statement.“It’s not ourselves that we proclaim, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Christ’s sake.”  This isn’t just about my annus horribilis, it’s about Him at work in the ministry we have to each other in the Body of Christ.

Kath returned to Kenilworth after lunch. It's been good to have her with us this particular weekend. She's been a great practical support this year with problem solving of several kinds, including bidet plumbing. I walked for an hour before tea and another half hour after tea. My right ankle is still giving me trouble and benefits from modest spells of careful exercise. This happens intermittently and may be something to do with my gait, but I've yet to figure out what's happening with ligaments, tendons and cartilage around the painful area.

I spent the evening after supper watching the first episode of 'Kabul' a drama about the Taliban takeover of Afghanistan, and the 'Ludwig'. And that was enough for the day.

Carnation mystery

I slept fairly well and when I got up Clare and Kath were up breakfasting on Saturday pancakes. Amazing that Kath was able to find out so much about the painting so quickly. With Clare's help she hung it above the dining room table. It's an imposing feature, like having a new member of the household with us. Kath then set to work fitting the new bidet attachment she sourced to the bathroom toilet. Both she and Rachel are confident, good at reading instructions and prepared to have a go at basic DIY plumbing jobs. I would be anxious about making a mistake and breaking something I can't fix. I'm in awe of my capable practical daughters.

After an early lunch we walked to the Big Top tent set up in Sophia Gardens for the latest show by No Fit State Circus entitled 'Carnation'. The troupe of young athletic performers excels at a range of circus arts including juggling with flexible rings, vertical rope work, trapeze, tightrope walking, tumbling, and use of a see-saw to launch performers into gymnastic aerial stunts. It was fast paced and impressive to watch, but difficult to follow the narrative thread or make sense of it. The accompanying musicians and singers were excellent though rather loud. Six months ago I would have been unable to tolerate the noise or intensity of the stimulus and felt compelled to leave. Evidently I have made progress since then!

When we returned home after the performance I cooked a veggie pasta dish for supper, then walked in the dark around the block for half an hour afterwards for some fresh air before bed.

Art detective work

I woke up from a good night's sleep to listen to the news on this 25th anniversary of the attack that destroyed the World Trade Centre in Manhattan killing three thousand people. 'The Reunion' programme on Radio 4 interviewed many witnesses with first hand experience remembering the events, and replayed audio from that tragic day. 

We were living in Monaco back then. I remember well it was a hot and humid day. We sat down to relax after lunch and watched the news coming in with live footage of the second plane crashing into the building, while the camera was focused on showing the fire started by the impact of the first plane. It didn't seem unreal or like a fake news item as it happened. There was genuine shock and horror in the news commentator's voice which no actor could convey.  

It was stunning to witness this, even at a great distance, trying to imagine what it was like for those caught up in this tragedy. A strong contingency of Americans lives in the Principality. That evening and over the days that followed I kept St Paul's church open and stayed around in case anyone wanted to talk or ask for prayer. Few people entered, those who did were lost for words. I guess most people were keeping vigil in front of the TV news or trying to contact family and friends in the hours that followed. By the weekend, the Diocese issued a special order of prayer for the victims, and all touched by the catastrophe for use in public acts of worship and a service took place at St Paul's. Those bleak sad days are a blur in my memory. There's nothing in my sermon archive to suggest I preached. It was a time for silence rather than words. It was already clear the world would not be the same again after such an atrocity, but in what way? Nobody could guess back then.

I went out to buy veg from Jason's greengrocer's before lunch then  started cooking without realising we're meant to be eating a cooked meal this evening when Kath arrives for the weekend. Crossed wires unfortunately. Sometimes my attention to detail fails due to the medication slowing my thought processes. I see things I may be looking for but not recognise them for this reason. I noticed this morning that my weight has dropped by four kilos. I'm convinced this is to do with the bad effect  of the medication on my digestive system. Will I convince the medics concerned with reviewing my medication that it's less beneficial to my health than they think?

I went to the pharmacy just after five to collect the prescription meds ordered on Monday and the place was shuttered at five twenty four, despite a notice in the shop window and on the website stating closure is five thirty. And it's not open again until Monday. It's the second time this has happened to me on a Friday. I was so annoyed.

Kath arrived at supper time, bringing with her a bidet device designed to sit under a toilet seat to attach to the bathroom water supply. Also Kath brought with her a large framed portrait, one metre tall by half a metre wide, of Clare's godmother Esther Ellen Skelton known as 'Auntie' Betty, her mother's cousin. It was painted by an artist named F Morelli when she was a child about seven years old. I recall seeing this on the wall in her dining room  when we visited her house sixty two years ago. She left the painting to Clare in her will. Her nephew Adrian acquired the painting when her house was cleared after her death in 1987, but he now lives in New Zealand. It's taken many years to reach us on a journey which started in Surrey, went to Wolverhampton after her death, then to Owain in Bristol last year. Kath picked it up from Bristol and delivered it to us. 

It's a beautiful work of art in a romantic impressionist style. The face has a recognisable family likeness to it, to judge from my recollection of the old woman I met fifty years  There was a sticker on the frame giving Auntie Betty's dates, and the painter's signature in red is in the bottom left hand corner. Kath fed a photo and the few details we had into Google and identified the artist as  Francesco Morelli a French-Italian painter who specialised in depicting scenes of rural life, but earned his keep from portraits of people commissioned by wealthy families. What a surprise!  By the time all this was revealed it was time for bed.